It is natural that difficulties hide in every corner of our life,so we haveto face them at times.Whatever we have undergone in our life, we shouldn'tcomplain about it. We may get a lot or lose so much in our life journey, butkeeping a positive attitude should always be together with us. Nothing candefeat us if we are confident and diligent. Just as saying goes, God is equal toeveryone. As he closes the door, he will also open a window for us.
Many of us have seen a picture on the Internet of a man with a nice smileis struggling along with the aid of a stick because of losing one of hisfeet,and another man is sitting on the ground without shoes on his feet,lookinganxious and depressed.How different the expressions flitting across their facesare!At the bottom of the drawing says”Because I have no shoes,I keep complaininguntil I find another man who has lost one of his feet.”
What an impressive drawing it is in revealing different attitudes towardlife!A person's attitude towards life is very important, it determines yourlife, which path you are taking and how your life will become. if you are aperson with very strong positive outlook, no matter what difficulties youencounter, you will always look at the bright side of life and never give upeasily. Take Thomas Edison as an example.Before inventing the electric bulb,hehad tried thousands of materials for lamp filament,but failed.Despite others’laughing at him.he said,”I am not a failure,at least I have proved thesematerials are not fit for filament.”Before long he invented electric bulb.
The most frequent example you see are those patients or people that arehandicapped or suffering from some type of illness like cancer. They do not giveup any glimpse of hope and continue fighting till they their last breathe. Eventhose very determined handicapped,they do not blame the world for their disable.Instead, they are contented and blessed with all the rest the have, their family, friends and those who support them greatly. Those handicapped with negativeattitude towards life will feel that the world is unfair and they life in miseryand always feel that they are unless and unwanted.
All in all,it is our attitudes that have changed everything in our life andhelp us to pull through all hardships.So we should strive to develop a positiveattitude toward life and the world.It is convinced that only when we areequipped with optimism and confidence can we achieve success in the future.
做一天和尚撞一天钟”的思想混日子;另一种是身在其位，不谋其政，反而怨天尤人，这个待遇高，那个岗位好，还有人说，当领导还不简单，要是我也有机会当部长，我并不比他们差，有的甚至想，我就能够当总经理，拿30万的年薪，多爽啊!其实，存在就是一种理由，任何一个在领导干部岗位上的人，就应说都是一步步凭自己本事闯出来的，同为操作工，他比别人精心，所以他当上了班长;同为班长，他比别人管理到位，所以他当上了副部长;同为副部长，他比别人有思想，所以他当上了部长，而这些并不是靠幻想或其它渠道所能得到的。所以，无论你处于什么样的岗位和环境，这些都不重要，关键是要有一颗进取之心，将远大目标与工作实践相结合，不脱离周围的现实环境，生活工作理想切合实际，脚踏实地，一步一个脚印，方能走出属于自己的一片完美天空!
第三，要持续人格的和-谐，为人要诚实
云南大学学生马加爵自幼性格孤僻，因为打牌与寝室同学发生争执，结果杀死了朝夕相处的4名同室室友，在刑前对话之前，他说没有理想是我人之中最大的失败，有信念的人才会快乐。我想，最根本的还是他的世界观、人生观太过狭隘，人格不够所以，持续人格的和-谐与健康是一个人成长、成才、成功的基础
第四，要关于从经验中学习，要学会发现生活
第五，要合理安排时间，做最有效率的事情
塑造阳光心态就是要有足够的自我安全感;了解自己，正确评价自己的潜力;生活理想切合实际;不脱离周围的现实环境;能持续人格的完整和-谐;善于从经验中学习;能持续良好的人际关系;能适度发泄和控制情绪;在贴合群众要求的前提下有限发挥个性和不违背社会规范的前提下恰当满足个人的基本需求。学会习惯于发现完美的生活，理解自己、别人、现实。学会欣赏每个瞬间，热爱生命，相信未来必须会更完美。宽容他人会获得祝福，背着太多的情感包袱的人没有能量应对这天，放下了情感包袱你会获得精神世界的成长。拥抱生命的所有时刻，利用它们使自己获得更多而不是更少。着眼于未来的活在当下，就会解放精神放下情感包袱，创造激-情、财富和权力。学习阳光心态塑造可建立用心的价值观、获得健康的人生和释放强劲的影响力。它有助于我们智力正常、能够控制自己的情绪并且心境良好、具有坚强的意志品质、人际关系正常、主动适应并改造环境、人格健全和统一以及心理发展贴合年龄特征。
最后我要说的是，你不能左右天气，但你能够改变情绪;你不能改变容颜，但你能够展现笑容;你不能控制他人，但你能够把握自己;你不能改变环境，但你能够改变自己;你不能预知明天，但你能够利用这天;你不能决定生命的长度，但你能够控制它的宽度。心中容不下他人，其实伤害的是自己;整天抱怨命运，不如实实在在地努力。创造好的生活需要好的心态，持续和-谐的人际关系需要好的心态，成就今后的未来需要好的心态，光辉的事业在等着我们，完美的前程在等着我们，就让我们从自己做起，从每一天每一刻的改变做起，为成就自己的完美未来，为打造和-谐的综合办，就让我们一道，彼此在阳光的心态之下，为着综合办的整体目标，风雨同舟，永不停息!
谢谢大家!
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