以爱为主题的英语演讲稿（精选3篇）
ever since the dawning of the history of mankind, there have been myriads of diversifed inventions, discoveries, and even explorations of the mysteries of the universe. in fact, the human beings are so intelligent that we have solved almost all kinds of problems we have confronted with.
however, nobody has ever made out what the word “love” really connotes, not even the most famous people such as great politicians, saints and philosophers can clarify the meaning of “love”， neither can they deal with the various affairs concerning love. love is like a huge boundless net that shrouds us all in. we can neither break away from it nor escape from it. like it or not, we are always entangled in it. it is an invisible net without any form, that shrouds in different people from different angels; it is a merciless net that upsets us or even tortures us to death. it is also a supreme net which almost no human can surpass. even if they are heroes, emperors, wise men or saints, they can do nothing but show their helplessness in its face. those who can breathe through the holes of the net should be regarded beyond commonness and vulgarity. love can bring us temporary comfort and happiness, but mostly they bring about annoyance and sufferings. maybe this is the reason why many people have seen through the illusions of the mortal world. however it is not so easy to break away from this boundless, ever-existing and indifferent net of love.
love is varied and changeable, but roughly it can be divided into three categories: family love, fraternal love and amatory love. not like monkey king who jumped out of the rocks, we were all born after mother's pregnancy of about nine months, hence we have countless relatives without any choice: parents, grand-parents, and grand-parents-in-law, uncles and aunties, brothers and sisters, etc. and once looking at the genealogical tree, we'll see no end. family love is what everyone longs for, but the warmth and support from our beloved ones are what everyone yearns for the most. but how many of us are determined to contribute to our beloved one? and how many don't expect repayment and relaxed. conscience even if they have the desire and preparation to contribute to their beloved. the distance between relatives is different and so are their expectations. but since it's very difficult to know how much we should expect, a lot of worries and distresses emerge.
parents always expect their children to show their filial obedience, or at least pay them frequent visits after they have got married. if the children fail to do this, they feel hurt and upset, and they'll even complain about their children, because they just can't understand why their children don't care about them after what they have done for the children for so many years to bring them up. nevertheless, one's experience determines his ideology. young children are naturally attached to their parents, but when they grow up, specially when they have made their own friends, and got married, what they need most is independence and freedom, and parents sometimes might become their burden. once there is generation gap, it becomes more difficult to communicate and this keeps them away from their parents. objectively speaking, they need more independence in order to achieve success. in the present society, what the children want to have most is the economic support from their parents, not their moral support or guidance. they would complain if your economic support is not up to their expectations. the love from uncles and aunties would naturally dwindle after they have had their own children. only the love from grand-parents and grand parents-in-law is pure and demands no repayment, and they are also too old to wait for any repayment. as for the distant relatives, their love depends on their needs, just as the old saying goes “the poor have no friends even if they live in downtown while the rich have distant relatives even if they live in deep mountains”。 granny liu, a distant kinsfolk, in a dream of the red mansions , claims kinship with the wealthy jia family, thinking that she may benefit from it in some ways. liu might have run away without any traces if the jia family had been a poor one. another saying goes “close neighbors are better than distant relatives.” the most difficult is to manage the relatives when doing business together, just as what the tv series program liu laogen discloses. it is all right to stay poor together, but as soon as the business grows prosperous, the group will become estranged and even dissolve because of the unfair distribution. family love is like a maze which we shouldn't go too far into it, otherwise, we'll surely get lost. love is a bilateral matter and unilateral love can only lead you to nowhere in spite of your good intentions. family love is, sometimes, like an arranged marriage, leaving no choices to you. due to the different experiences and tastes, staying together temporarily can be entertaining, while living together for a long time can only be boring due to the lack of common interest and understanding. how can we communicate with each other without understanding? parents have the duty to support the children who are not yet economically independent, and children have the responsibility to provide for the elderly parents who are lack of economic abilities to support themselves. except these two kinds of duties which we must fulfill, other kinds of love become conventional formalities such as paying visit to the sick or the dead and giving presents to the newly-born etc.
no love among relatives has become a normal phenomenon which needn't to be fussed about. what's worse is when love is contaminated by money. sooner or later we will get hurt. the sooner we get out of this net of love, the more we can preserve beautiful memories.
we are not living in vacuum, and the society is formed of various kinds of people. as long as we want to live, study, or work, we have to contact, communicate and cooperate with others. those who enjoy common interests, mutual understanding, common undertakings and common benefits become friends.
some friends are called fair-weather friends, because they are together just for entertaining themselves by eating, drinking, and gossiping. once there's nothing to eat and drink, their friendship is finished. some are spiritual friends who share common ambitions, pursuits and education. “they enjoy talking and laughing with the great talents and never make friends with the good-for-nothings”. the best examples would be yu boya and zhong ziqi of the ancient times who are famous not only for their lofty music but mainly for their lofty characters and mutual understanding and appreciation. they cared very little about material wealth, so their friendship is known as “gentlemen's friendship as pure as water”.the third type of friendship belong to those who show their utter devotion to each other. they are ready not only to share weal and woe but also to die for each other, like the three brothers liu, guan and zhang in the novel romance of the three kingdoms. . we all wish to have this kind of friendship, but it's of great difficulty for the ordinary people to be as devoted as they were.
fraternal love or friendship is wide-ranged and flexible. generally speaking, everyone is our friend, just as chairman mao says “our friends are all over the world”。 but transcend age, sex, nationality, state and economic conditions. to them the most important is common benefit, common interest and understanding. friendship is formed during the course of studying, working and fighting. the battle companions who have survived many hazards usually enjoy long-lasting friendship.
however, fraternal love is not stable. being away for too a long time, losing all common benefits, friends will become estranged. once their interest has changed, they no longer understand each other, and even this would harm friendship. at all times and in all countries, many close friends and battle companions who once worked together and fought together became enemies in the end. quiet a few of the emperors in ancient china even killed those who had helped them found their dynasties. the taiping heavenly kingdom would not have failed if it hadn't been for the contending and massacring among the those who first rose in rebellion at the beginning of the uprising. what else we need to pay attention to is that some friends, after being away from each other for too long a time, have lost so much of their original characters that when meeting again, you will feel that you are still the same as you were, while they are no longer themselves. they may have the same feeling about you, so sometimes it's better not to meet each other again. as the chinese proverb goes “friendship can not last for three years and flowers can not stay in blossom for three months”.it's not so easy to maintain real friendship which needs mutual understanding, tolerance and sacrifice. any kinds of harsh treatment will damage friendship.
amatory love has been a mystery for ages. there's neither a criterion to judge nor a common rule to follow. nobody can tell the exact reasons why love emerges. it is not always because of beauty (the ugly doorkeeper quasimodo in the hunchback of notre dame is loved by the beautiful gypsy girl esmeralda),nor kindness (hitler also has his mistress),nor wisdom ( even the blockhead may sometimes marry a beautiful girl),nor strength (some love starts from sympathy).true love is like getting an electric shock, shaking our soul. it is a sweet dream, a kind of intoxication, indulgence, and endless passion.
true love doesn't need a long time to grow up, to make clear the family tree of the other, neither does it needs the time to look ahead and behind again and again. love is not marriage, which usually starts from love, but doesn't always depend on love to maintain. long-lasting marriage can eventually turn into a kind of family love, a kind of companionship which preserves the companion but loses the passion. love is often an wink of the eye, or a smile that hints mutual understanding. in spite of the great distance between them, people may fall in love incidentally. hence the saying “a distant marriage is tied up with a mysterious thread”. love needs passion, and it can stand bumps and stumbles, ups and downs, complaints and blames. when it turns into a pool of water, especially dead water, without any billows or waves, it's time for it to die.
delicacies are tasty, but eating everyday can still make one lose appetite. happiness is what everyone longs for, but too much happiness can spoil people who may not care about the happiness they already have. it's universal to live in happiness without knowing it. the same is true with love. very few people can love the same person passionately all their lives. all love stories come to an end no matter how beautiful they are, which also demonstrate the changeability of love. what one has been chasing wildly may turn into something one wants to get rid of desperately in the end. besides, love is usually blind, especially those who fall in love at the first sight. at the very beginning, both try to demonstrate their beautiful side and cover up their weakness. fooled by the mysterious color of love, one often mistakes the weaknesses as merits. however, as time passes by, frequent contacts make one bored, and even merits become defects, and then the end of love is coming. what's more, there are the capricious men and women who never take love seriously, leaving the devoted ones suffering alone. the saying that the devoted is always abandoned by the heartless has almost become the truth of love affairs. what we can't neglect is that love may turn into hatred, and lovers may also become enemies. the best proof is the numerous divorces.
even though true love is hard to find nowadays, we still can see some true and infatuated boys and girls who readily give up their families, their parents, their studies, their careers and even their lives for love. they love so passionately, crazily and wildly that they hate anyone who is against their love, and may even harm or kill him if he insists on his objection.
love has magical power that can exploit people's potential abilities, bring people's positive factors into full play, and provide people with the courage to face trials and hardships, to go through life and death, and even to risk universal condemnation. even in the ancient feudal society, some people were courageous enough to carry on clandestine love affairs. the examples in point were the courageous ones who dared to love the concubines of the emperors or the children of their foes. love also has miraculous power which can startle the universe and move the gods by attracting the heavenly celestials coming down to earth ( the love story of the cowboy and the weaving girl ),and by turning ghosts into human ( strange tales of liao-zhai ),love can transcend age and generation (dr. sun yat-sen and madam song qingling; luxun and xu guangping).love can show contempt for all conventions and prejudices; love can heal wounds and cure diseases, and love can readjust people's state of mind. of course, the result would be the opposite once it hurts.
great men yearn for true love even more than ordinary people. since the ancient times, so many heroes couldn't help falling into the trap of love that the sex-trap has been regarded as one of the 36 stratagems in military tactics. fuchai, the king of the wu state, couldn't be spared of this trap, and generals dongzhuo and lubu fell deeply into it while xiangyu, the king of the western chu state , bid farewell to his beloved concubine in tears. people may have to pay very high price, even their illustrious name for the love they long for even though it may last for only a very short time. nonetheless no one can tear himself away from love. people often say that their earthly affinity is not yet finished, but in fact it is the love affinity that is the most difficult to finish.
love is shapeless and priceless. we can blame nobody when captured by it. love can not be forced, nor can it be pretended. sympathy is not love, neither is gratitude. love must be generated from the heart, and expressed in actions. it can not be called love without passions and a deep longing from the bottom of the heart. there's no impassable gulf between family love and fraternal love. some family love may turn into friendship. at the same time, natural barriers doesn't exist either between fraternal love and amatory love. some friendship may develop into amatory love. the same is true with amatory love which may change into family love after a long time of mutual grinding and polishing.the closer the relationship, and the higher the expectations are, the more difficult it is to get along with each other. family love, fraternal love and amatory love are three main human feelings. if handled well, they can bring us extreme happiness, while handled improperly, will bring us great sufferings.
the present society is a world of dazzling money and dwindling human feeling contacts. most people hold a snobbish attitude. they only make friends with people of wealth and of high social status. just as zhen shiyen said in his expounding of the song “all good things must end” in a dream of the red mansions “while men with gold and silver by the chest, turn beggars scorned by all and dispossessed”.frankly speaking, however, if we regard money the first thing in whichever one of the three kinds of loves, it will depreciate and even become worthless.
love can not pretend, nor can it tolerate too much selfish motives. it is reported that an old man in jiangsu province left his million yuan heritage to his young housekeeper instead of his own children, because his own children didn't take care of him while the young housekeeper accompanied him through his last lonely and helpless years.
love is easily perceivable and perceptible. flattery words may be cheatable, but true love and false feelings can easily be distinguished. if the people you love only know how to spend your money, you should be careful of them. everyone can help you spend your money if you give them the chance. never turn your love into the slave of money.
love should be selfless, and feelings should be sincere. we shouldn't judge our feelings according to the distance of the relationship. everyone treasures love and nobody can fool himself or the others. a chinese saying goes: real heroes yearn even more for true love, and great men cherish tender love for their children.
we are the saint on earth, and should treasure our love, but we should know how much is good and where to stop. since there's no ever-lasting banquet, nor is there an endless love story, we should take the gains and losses of love with perfect composure. there's fragrant grass in every corner of the earth, and you can always find your love in this world.
Only mother love is true love .It's gives everybody everything in all his life ,When you are still a baby ,mother takes good care of you as much as possible. In your waking hour she always holds you in her arms. When you are ill, she stop her work right now to look after you day and night and forgets about herself. When you are growing up day by day, she feels very happy. When you are old enough to go to school, mother still looks after you all the time. On cold winter days, she always tells you to put on more clothes. She always stands in the window waiting for you back from school. When you are hurry to leave home for school for breakfast ,she feels worried about you at home.She usually knows about your study and spends much money on your school things .
When you do well at school . you will see the brightset smile on her face. Mother is ailways ready to give everything she has to her children ,not to receive. What true love that is in the world !We will remember Mother love forever Friendship Every one of us, rich or poor, should at least have one or two good friends. My friends will listen to me when I want to speak, will wipe my eyes when I cry, will take care of me when I am sick, and my friends will go together with me side by side through this journey of life. As students, we could share more time with our friends. The friendship in our young hearts is pure, fresh and si-mp-le. I often feel very lucky to have a lot of good friends.
Especially when I had Justin as one of my best friends. Justin was my English teacher from the USA. I met him in 1996 when I was a student who could only speak very little English. Justin was a vivid young man with a bright smile on his face, and he always had his special way to make the claactive and attractive. He taught us English by telling stories, playing games, singing songs, and even dancing. I could still remember very clearly that one afternoon when we fin-ished our class, we went to some other classes to sing songs for them, just like what people do in the states on Christmas Eve. It was so interesting and unforgettable. Justin was an excellent teacher, because he taught us not only how to study English well, but also the way to find out the beauty of the world and the way to be angels to others' lives.
I know there was friendship and pure love in our hearts. Facing this valuable emotion neither nationality nor age was important, the real importance lay in faith, under-standing, and care. Justin is the best friend I have ever had, and I know I will cherish those days of staying together with him as the best part of my memory. Friendship is a kind of treasure in our lives. It is actually like a bottle of wine, the longer it is kept, the sweeter it will be. It is also like a cup of tea. When we are thirsty, it will be our best choice, but when we have enough time to enjoy ourselves, it is also the most fragrant drink. However, in this fast-developing mo.
尊敬的各位，老师：
我今天演讲的题目是《我的学生，我的爱》
“育苗有志闲逸少，润物无声辛劳多。”教坛十几载风雨，我倍尝苦辣酸甜，也深深认识到：爱是教师最美的语言。要当好一名教师，就要爱岗敬业，热爱学生，爱的专心致志，爱的无私无畏！
每次走进校园，我都会深深地感动着，没有哪一种职业能有这样的殊荣，被人千百次地问候：老师，您好！老师，您好！每当沐浴着那清脆的童声，听到那仿佛来自天籁的纤尘不染的问候，感受到孩子们那水晶般纯洁的心灵时，我都会醉心于自己当初的选择——当一名教师。
有人说教师是蜡烛，燃烧自己，照亮别人；有人说教师甘为人梯，默默奉献；有人说教师捧着一颗心来，不带半根草去，我就是带着这样的一份崇敬走进了教师的队伍，当我穿越了笼罩在教师身上的所有光环，触摸到它的实质时，才真正理解了教师职业的内涵，教师是那么的平凡，:就如同一颗小小的铺路石，教师又是那么普通，只是历史长河中的沧海一栗，然而，教师又是伟大的，它是太阳底下最光辉的事业；教师是神圣的，它承载着人类灵魂工程师的重责。
一路走来，我认识了孔子的“师者为师亦为范，学高为师，德高为范。”认识了韩愈的“师者，所以传道、授业、解惑者也。”认识了陶行知的“你的教鞭下有瓦特，你的冷眼里有牛顿，你的讥笑中有爱迪生。”认识了林崇德教授的“疼爱自己的孩子是本能，疼爱别人的孩子是神圣。”这些无一不诠释了“没有爱就没有教育，没有高尚的师德就无法成为一个优秀的教师。”
人们常说，教育是爱的事业，这种爱没有惊天动地的气魄，只有润物无声的永恒。“谁爱孩子，孩子就爱他，只有爱孩子的人，他才能教育孩子。”十几年的教育生涯，让我更深的参透了这句话的含意。我曾教过这样一个单亲家庭的孩子，在低年级时，成绩低下，特别淘气，特别爱打架，今天把张三打哭了，明天又把李四打坏了，我也曾严厉的批评过他，但是丝毫不起作用，今天改了，明天再犯。于是，我改变了教育方式，我天天利用课余时间，找他谈话，给他讲道理，给他生活上帮助，给他讲解功课，让这位学生感到“从来没有过的温暖，”尝到爱的滋味。经过一段时间的以情换心，他终于变了，变得懂事了，变得爱学习了。还有这样一个学生，思维敏捷，特别还表现自己，但上课爱搞小动作，业时马马虎虎，所以成绩平平，我经过观察和思考，就把班级的一些小事交给他做，做得好就在同学面前大力表扬，不好时就给予指导，并且多次当着他的面，在她母亲面前表扬他。最重要的是在一次家长会上让她的母亲介绍他进步的经验，从那次后，他改了它所有的坏毛病，成了一名优秀的学生。我的这些看似平常的关爱，赢得了学生的信赖，更赢得了家长的好评。是的，唯有爱的雨露才能催开最美的花朵；唯有爱的交流，才能搭起师生之间心灵的彩桥。教师应用自己博大的爱去温暖每一位学生。教师只有热爱学生、尊重学生，才能去地培养学生，才能更耐心地教育学生。
是啊！教师面对的是一群群雏鸟，他们还不会飞翔，更不知道飞向哪里，可是他们却渴望跟随着领头鸟的翅膀飞向世界精彩的所在，在学生眼里，教师是神圣的，是美丽与智慧的象征，是正义与道德的代表，是让他们崇敬、信任、爱戴，并渴望接近和刻意模仿的人。孩子们的双眼，就像一部永不停息的摄像机，每天对着你不停地拍摄，你的一言一行、一颦一笑就这样影子一样地刻在他们幼小的心灵里。面对这样崇拜着你、爱戴着你、信任着你的孩子，教师更应从小事做起，从自我做起，率先垂范，作出表率，以高尚的人格感染人，以整洁的仪表影响人，以和蔼的态度对待人，以丰富的学识引导人，以博大的胸怀爱护人。只有这样，才能保证教书育人的实效，学生才会“亲其师，信其教”，进而“乐其道。
在从教生涯中，我始终把教书育人铬记在心，对待学生一视同仁，从不因学习成绩，家庭背景而偏袒某个学生，从不恶意地伤害某个学生，因为毕竟每个学生的背后都有有父母期待的目光，每个学生都是家庭和社会的希望，每个学生的现在都将影响着祖国的未来，所以我坦诚地对待每一个学生，关心、爱护他们，尊重他们的人格，保护他们的自尊心，对学生的过失能理智地分析，正确引导，适当地给予宽容和谅解，对后进生能用超常的耐心去感化，视他们为迟开的花朵，给予哺育，课下，我会对学生摸摸头，开开玩笑；学生病了，我会嘘寒问暖，为了学生能全面发展，培优辅困；为了学生能共同进步，促膝谈心；为了学生能受到教育；我不知付出了多少时间与精力！但我无怨无悔。因为我爱我的学生，我爱我所从事的教育事业。
我善待每位学生，用那“爱”的清泉，去擦拭后进生歪曲的心灵，使所有的孩子身到健康成长，学业有所进步。我愿意坚守在教师这一平凡的岗位上，用无私的奉献，真诚的关爱铺就孩子们的成功路。每当碰到自己教过的学生，不管过去他们成绩如何，哪怕只教过她一年半载，时间已过那么久，今天能听到他们亲切的叫声：“老师，老师”我就心满意足了。每次放假，好多学生都抽空来看我，是我莫大的安慰。每到节日，那一条条祝福的短信，就是我爱的回报吧！
从教至今，我深深地感到教师的物质生活相对清贫，但生活却无比充实。每天清晨“老师，您早。”那童稚的问候，给我带来了一天的快乐和生机；每天傍晚随着一声声“老师，再见。”给我留下明天的希望之光。孩子们纯洁的心、圣洁的情、深厚的意，净化了我的心灵，激起了我对教育事业深深的爱，我真正地体会到了一个教师所有的幸福和快乐。每当看到那一双双渴求的目光，一张张专注的面容，不由得让人身心激动，似乎融入到无比圣洁的情境，生命也因此赢得了壮丽的升华。我们的奉献虽然不见什么轰轰烈烈的壮举，但却是用平凡与崇高的师德之光，照亮了一片清纯的天地。那深夜窗下不眠的灯光，作业本上殷红的心血，课堂内外淳淳的教诲，一点一滴，潜移默化，日积月累，耳濡目染，久而久之，教师的道德品格便在学生心中生根发芽，开花结果。
让我们用慈爱呵护纯真；用智慧孕育成长；用真诚开启心灵；用希冀放飞理想，用热血和汗水去浇灌一茬茬幼苗、一簇簇花蕾，用爱心去托起明天的太阳。
最后，我用一首小诗勉励自己：我无须广袤的田野，无须肥沃的土壤，那一方教室，三尺讲台，是我耕耘的地方，传播科学，开启智慧，挖掘知识的宝藏。春来秋去，滴滴汗水化作甘霖，把花朵浇灌。为了祖国的希望，激情飞扬，激情飞扬。无须华丽的舞台，无须动听的乐章，那一块黑板，几只粉笔，任我潇洒四方，励志扬鞭，放飞理想，点燃信念的光芒。寒来暑往，浓浓爱意凝成雨露，让硕果飘香。为了祖国的辉煌，展翅飞翔，展翅飞翔。
我的演讲完毕，谢谢大家！