给男朋友的分手信十二篇
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或许爱恨情愁在你我心中缠绕紧紧将你我困绑
时至今日我们终于有勇气一起来面对那段遗憾的过去以及种种的误解
这段日子所带给你的困扰真的好抱歉
面对这样的结果除了遗憾也只能说是你我了解不够吧
希望未来还有机会让我们好好了解彼此认识彼此
就如同我所说的我们的未来就由你决定
如果你认为我们还值得作朋友等你调适好自己与我联络
相信那会是我们之间的默契不需言语的默契
最后还是要谢谢你曾经给我的一切你的温柔你的陪伴
这些我将放进深深的心底成为我珍贵的回忆
谢谢你爱过我.......
缘尽缘浅
原本想写信给你的,可是我不知道该跟你说些什么啊!
越到这分离的时刻.....心情似乎越不能够平静
我开始害怕晚上在电话中应该说些什么了....
其实还不就是那些......好好照顾自己之类的话啦....
或许是前几天要说的都说完了吧.....
现在的我不想再多说些什么,只想静静的听他说.....
在面对分离之际,心中总是有万般的不舍,但不舍又能如何呢?
或许日子忙碌点,我就会忘了这种相思之苦.....
可是在看到身边的朋有都是双双对对时....
心中又会不免有点哀怨.....
亲爱的:
这是一封分手信。
不是所有的分手,都是因为爱情的消失或转移。
亲爱的,就在两天前,你又和我提出分手了,只不过是因为你重复了两遍的话我没有听到。
你知道吗?每当你说分手的时候,我在你眼睛中看到的不是对于目前生活的厌倦,更不是希望之光的泯灭,相反,我看到的是渴望,有几次你的眼睛里甚至闪烁着激动而兴奋的光芒。我知道,你在期待我因即将失去你而爆发出来的痛不欲生和歇斯底里,你内心摩拳擦掌地等待着这一刻的到来,好让你相信我是多么爱你。
所以,提出分手,对于你而言,甚至都不是无聊的恶作剧,而是在你我之间会定时上演的爱情大戏,是一场令你无比享受和满足的饕餮盛宴。
亲爱的,我真的累了,对于你无休止的质问与考验,对于你给出的无穷无尽的爱情习题。
每次当我面露难意或疲倦,你就会说我已经不爱你了,或者说我老了,已经爱不动了。
我愿意为你付出一切,但不是以这种方式。
我爱你。但是我们对爱的理解与诉求不同。你崇拜那种激荡的偏执的爱,因此总希望能够将爱走得曲折,走得错综迷离,用一连串惊天动地的故事,用透支生命的消耗与付出,用无与伦比的悲情来证明爱、诠释爱。
可对于我而言,爱不是这样的。爱不是生与死的对决,不是情感与理智的两难题,不是为一个人而放弃生命中其它一切可贵之物的勇气。爱,只是一个简单的念头,是想和一个人在一起,是分开数日后的一点惦记,是想起彼此时心头淡淡的香气,仅此而已。
是的,爱情应该是一种加法,应该因为它的到来给万事万物带来光彩,而不应该为它剥夺掉生活中其余部分存在的权利。爱,应该是仁慈的,宽厚的,吉祥的。而不该是苛刻的,霸道的,晦气的。
举一个小例子。和我在一起的时候,你总要和我做些什么,一起看电影,或者一起玩游戏,如果我想一个人做点事,你就会不开心。可我却觉得,爱,不是让对方成为自己生命中无时不刻的主角,相反,是让对方成为自己生命中不可或缺的背景——不是一起做什么,而是只要有你在,我就可以安心地去做任何事。
我认为的爱情,是轻盈的,透明的,简单的。
而你认为的爱情,是沉重的,晦涩的,复杂的。
我从来没想过考验你,因为我信任你,更因为我认为爱情是平凡之物,即使你犯了错,或者在某些时刻对我的爱降了温,我也可以接受。因为我愿意谅解爱的不完美。
可你却时刻警惕,甚至设置人工障碍来考验我,有时我会觉得你爱慕爱情超越了爱我,你只不过想把我提炼成一段完美的爱情故事。
亲爱的,对不起,在你提过了多次分手后,这一次轮到我提出分手了。我并不是赌气,更不是报复。只不过我的爱情观是极简主义,与你的极致主义实在不相匹配。我也不是老了,更不是爱不动了,其实我比你更渴望爱,所以我更需要像甘泉那样清澈透明的爱情来迅速滋润我的喉咙和心田,而你,需要的是果汁,需要那种甜腻的、绚丽的饮品来装点你的生活,只可惜,果汁对于我来说,已经不够解渴了。
亲爱的,我想要平淡的爱情,不需要时刻掏心掏肺,泪眼婆娑。也许有的爱情如暴风雨,有的爱情如绵绵细雨,如果只能选择一种的话,我情愿选择后者,因为暴风雨会摧毁万物,一场暴风雨过后,一切都会消失殆尽。而细雨能够润万物于无声,这才是最深沉的力量。也许多年后,我没有或宏大或凄美的爱情故事可以讲,但是我每时每刻都感受到了爱,这就够了。关于那些惊天动地、风花雪月的爱情故事,我当一个听众就好了。
我会记住我为你流过的眼泪,也会记住你灿烂的笑脸。请原谅我,并不是我不愿意等你慢慢长大或改变,而是我不想将你改变,就像我不愿意放弃简单的爱情一样,也许你也会一直不愿意放弃惊天地泣鬼神的爱情吧。毕竟,我们的一生都会爱许多人,并不是每个人都是用来走完这一辈子的。我们相互陪伴走了一段,留下了一些回忆,留下了一些感悟,这就是它会存在与发生的全部道理。
那么,亲爱的,就到这里吧,这封信,以及我们的爱情。
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昨天下午你再没来电话,你又何必敷衍我?后来和朋友出去,我以为出去散散心回来就可以恢复过来。可是傍晚回家,推开房门眼泪又掉了下来。吃饭的时候一直不敢说话,因为知道一开口便会忍不住泪水。当爸爸妈妈吃完饭离开饭桌,我眼眶里打转的泪水一眨眼就滴落,急忙把头藏在饭碗里,不敢让他们看见,眼泪一颗颗滴进饭里。躲进厨房盛饭,飞快地把眼泪擦干净,然而出来才吃了两口饭,又是满脸的泪水。我怎么这样的没用。
我准备暂时离开深圳,本来说好两人一起的旅行,我想现在我只能独自上路。无法在爸爸妈妈面前装作若无其事,只好选择离开一段时间,没办法面对他们的疑问,没办法面对他们的关心。前天妈妈还对我说,早知你当晚回家,应该叫你进来带点荔枝回去,爸爸去视察又带回来一筐荔枝。还说如果结婚,先别买房子,福田那套房子不出租了给我们住……我已经无法承受这些话,每次忍着泪转身回房间,心痛的感觉排山倒海。曾经的甜蜜成了今天最血淋淋的伤痛。
已经在准备行程,希望时间和另一个城市能让我尽快平复。我想时间长了,大家都会忘记这件事,不会再提起。只是,我自己要用多少时间来遗忘,要用多少时间才不会再心痛。我知道,那将是很长很长的一段时间。旅行回来之后,我想不必再向爸爸妈妈多做解释,他们应该明白发生的事情,然后我要将停顿下来的出国手续重新继续办理,我本简单,我本认为幸福就是很年轻就结婚相夫教子,我本认为这种幸福对我是奢侈,不曾想到遇见你,你给了我一个春天的美丽一个季节的浪漫,让我天真地以为等待已久的爱情终于眷顾,每个坚信爱的人最终能遇上真命天子,我以为我就此可以停止漂泊寻找,就此做个简单的小女人。原来一切只是个笑话,只是个青天白日梦。决定换个生活环境,这一身伤痛,从此再不爱人,不再与人谈及婚嫁。
1、最浪漫的情话,是当那个已经跟你分手了的情人打电话来问:“你好吗?”你稀松平常的回答:“我很好。”而其实你还爱着他,你一点也不好。
2、有天当你想起我,时间已摆平所有的错,也学会不再问为什么。直到有一天,面对爱情开始吝啬,会不会怀念当初的炙热?一路上经过各自曲折,直到有一天,选某个人相濡以沫。
3、当看破一切的时候,才知道,原来失去比拥有更踏实。
4、有一个人,教会你怎样去爱了,但是,他却不爱你了。
5、没有他我不会不习惯,因为我从来没有习惯拥有他。
6、我再也不会奋不顾身的去爱一个人了,哪怕是你。
7、我心里一直有你,只是比例变了而已。
8、现在终于到了要分别的时候,他比我先走,我反而觉得有点欣慰。这样的悲伤,迟早会让我们其中一个人单独体会,就让我来承担好了。
9、望着你离开的背影,我告诉自己要坚强,不哭,是因为爱你,更是因为懂你。
10、我赢了所有人,却输掉了你。
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我不知道你会看得到或者看不到我所写的信,只希望你可以还记得我,那个让你曾经真的伤了心的人,多年来,直到我确认我自己已成长及真的懂得珍惜,才知道我所失去的,只有你让我留下永生难以磨灭的内疚,对你有说不出的万分抱歉,很想问候你这些年你过得好吗?虽然我知道你不可能再回到我身边,但我希望
你能有个世界上最好的女人来爱你,我没有什么资格对你说些什么话,我只想告诉你,我很后悔让你离开我,很后悔放弃你,如果你有看到这一段留言,希望你能原谅我,原谅我那时的无知,诚心的告白,只希望你能原谅我,因为我已没有资格向你再施舍什么了.
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亲爱的,这是我第一次,也是最后一次给你写信了。因为写完这封信,我将要离开你。
亲爱的,还记得我们是怎么认识的吗?那时候刚刚失恋的你总是彻夜难眠,在网上遇见了陪室友刷夜的我。是,我承认是我傻,明知道你深爱着已为人妇的她,却依然无可救药地恋上你。可是如果感情是说控制就能控制的,那还有什么珍贵之处呢?
亲爱的,你还记得吗?你第一次说爱我的时候,我慌张的表情,欣喜的眼神。是的,我欣喜若狂,我以为我的付出,终于等到了你的回应。虽然,这回应有些被动。
亲爱的,你知道吗?其实,我真的很羡慕她。就算她背叛了你们的感情,嫁做他人妇,就算她婚后仍自私地不许你交任何女友,就算她嫁到国外,却还对你说,我依然会回来找你之类的任性语言,就算她做任何无理的事情,你都将一切视为理所当然,并且爱她如昔。
亲爱的,你知道吗?其实我不喜欢你抽烟并不是因为我有支气管炎,对烟味过敏,会喘不过气,而是因为你身体不太好,我怕你这样剧烈地吸烟会有损健康。就像我不喜欢你玩魔兽并不是因为你没时间陪我,而是因为一晚八小时地呆在电脑前,没有正常的睡眠,身体会垮掉。你可以不明白这些,但是,请不要在我为此流泪或者生气的时候,责备我太任性,并反复拿我和她做对比。因为爱她,所以她在无理取闹也是对我,而我再怎么做,都是错。
亲爱的,你知道吗?其实现在我有点厌倦了做饭。当初你对我说喜欢吃湖南菜,所以我每天洗手做羹汤。我要的并不多,只想在我一个人洗菜做饭的时候,你能从电脑旁走到厨房,拥抱我一下,或者赞美一下我的手艺。如此而已。我不愿意出去吃饭,只是因为我不想你乱花钱。北京消费并不低,你总该为自己和父母打算一下未来。
1、转弯只为遇见你,却忘记了,你也会转弯。
2、总以为,在最初的地方,有一个最原来的我,就也会有一个最原来的你。
3、你有新欢了,我连旧爱都不是。
4、也许有一天,你回头了,而我却早已不在那个路口。
5、结局和过程都有了,再去纠缠,连自己都觉得贪婪。
6、忘记你,是为了证明我可以忘记你。
7、你突然点醒我,我们相识的时间能够以年计算了,你找到了你爱的,而我,还在原地徘徊着。
8、我们再也不会像以前那样,以彼此为不可替代;我们再也不会像以前那样,那样用力的爱,直到哭了出来。
9、一天,我终于不再思念他,因为他离开太久了,我的习惯已经不再是习惯。
10、我们都这样离散在岁月的风里,回过头去,却看不到曾经在一起的痕迹,尽管,曾今那么用力的在一起过。
Baby:
please allow me the last time so call you! When you see this letter I've been on a trip back home because I know I never has no chance to say these two words with you, this is the last letter I wrote to you, at this moment my heart ached, but for the sake of your choice, I still want to write this letter brimming with tears. In you leave me these two days I thought a lot also understand a lot, I find you just want to keep you mean there is no other hope you don't want to wrong, as you said in the monitor our family you I can assure you that there is absolutely no, right now I will never in bother you.
I wish you would give me the last time we have the opportunity to, until the morning, and I said you let me understand the lost love, many people know that the lost love is hard to turn back! But even in together also can't be like before, because I love you, I still choose no longer entwine you, maybe I just a traveler in your life! I hope the afterlife I door will continue to this period of bitter love! Perhaps this love should be sweet, then think about it. Many things are all my own ignorance of mistakes... but I really don't want to break up with you, I know I am a bad temper. Countless times and quarrel with you, in order to little things can be a little absurd, looking back now forget it, all over now everything in the past with the wind. Forget may be a good thing! Hope everyone happy even break up will break up, I know this is easier said than done. It's hard to do! When I think about being with you together happy tears can strike down. Let it gone, lost love heart let time slowly wound it forget perhaps very difficult, but I will learn to slowly try! I hope one day, I really can really learn, instead of sad. Meeting you was fate of traction, leave you may be hit the doomed, perhaps the fate will become more! The past sweet aftertaste now can only use crying instead, everything can only cause destruction in miss yourself!
With all my happiness and hope to be with you is nearly eight months, many others did not experience the pain.. We have learned. Again the injustice of the deepest heart, tears of failure, is a very simple word love to over. Maybe I have to break up to you to say, maybe I don't believe that we have come to an end; But your rude words made me sad, maybe everybody is sad, but I think it's time we say break up to you. Today we finally have the courage to face the regret of the past, I have the courage to face you should be, in addition to regret in the face of such result can only say that I don't know about you. I think with you together of days is happy and happy, is you let me know what call love? How to care about a person, love a person? How to be a good boyfriend? How to make a girlfriend happy? All this is all you taught me, thank you for let me know the many, many I did not know and done before, in my memory, you also once many times said broke up with me, how many times we are through the tears, in retrospect, also many times with you quarrel, I am really sorry you, let you involvement, let every time you are very pain, also let your character became mania and throw things, I know in your eyes I was a child grow up is not mature, because of my ignorance and immaturity for heart and tired.
Maybe I said promise, for you never not achieve them, but for me I have to go to do, but not a commitment to achieve two or three days, after all, the relationship to the future happiness, and may also be because our personality are caused by the impatient, has already passed, however, will not start again from today, because you are tired, tired you should let go, have a word, love you will make you happy, you and I can't find happiness together, only leave you let you find happiness in the heart, this is also one of the biggest cost love, though you find happiness is no longer I, but I still want to bless you, hope you later life happy happy, also wish you good health! If love a person is so silently selfless dedication, whether spiritual or material, all I want, that is why I will change my position, for the sake of your happiness, I will accept, because the reality is cruel, love is selfish!
Damage is inevitable. I am a boy, don't want to liabilities more reluctant to carry debt, so I don't want to see you sacrifice their all stay with me, do you think is in love me, but you forget that I love you too, don't want to see you more sacrifice. Leave only heard silence, in addition to silence to leave you I still have what choice? There is a love called to give up in the world and fall in love with you is a wrong, but I have no regret. It is good to have memories with you my life. I will be happy, so you rest assured, because my life's biggest sorrow is away from you, again sad again difficult?
Take good care of yourself, if you forget me you will happy, so forget me, don't blame you, you always like a child let me love and chi, now that I can't give you happiness, so I have to let go hold your hand, my can let you go looking for happiness... Baby, again say to you that the two profound words, it could also be the last time I have ever told you so, I'm gone...
亲爱的:
这是一封分手信。
不是所有的分手,都是因为爱情的消失或转移。
亲爱的,就在两天前,你又和我提出分手了,只不过是因为你重复了两遍的话我没有听到。
你知道吗?每当你说分手的时候,我在你眼睛中看到的不是对于目前生活的厌倦,更不是希望之光的泯灭,相反,我看到的是渴望,有几次你的眼睛里甚至闪烁着激动而兴奋的光芒。我知道,你在期待我因即将失去你而爆发出来的痛不欲生和歇斯底里,你内心摩拳擦掌地等待着这一刻的到来,好让你相信我是多么爱你。
所以,提出分手,对于你而言,甚至都不是无聊的恶作剧,而是在你我之间会定时上演的爱情大戏,是一场令你无比享受和满足的饕餮盛宴。
亲爱的,我真的累了,对于你无休止的质问与考验,对于你给出的无穷无尽的爱情习题。
每次当我面露难意或疲倦,你就会说我已经不爱你了,或者说我老了,已经爱不动了。
我愿意为你付出一切,但不是以这种方式。
我爱你。但是我们对爱的理解与诉求不同。你崇拜那种激荡的偏执的爱,因此总希望能够将爱走得曲折,走得错综迷离,用一连串惊天动地的故事,用透支生命的消耗与付出,用无与伦比的悲情来证明爱、诠释爱。
可对于我而言,爱不是这样的。爱不是生与死的对决,不是情感与理智的两难题,不是为一个人而放弃生命中其它一切可贵之物的勇气。爱,只是一个简单的念头,是想和一个人在一起,是分开数日后的一点惦记,是想起彼此时心头淡淡的香气,仅此而已。
是的,爱情应该是一种加法,应该因为它的到来给万事万物带来光彩,而不应该为它剥夺掉生活中其余部分存在的权利。爱,应该是仁慈的,宽厚的,吉祥的。而不该是苛刻的,霸道的,晦气的。
举一个小例子。和我在一起的时候,你总要和我做些什么,一起看电影,或者一起玩游戏,如果我想一个人做点事,你就会不开心。可我却觉得,爱,不是让对方成为自己生命中无时不刻的主角,相反,是让对方成为自己生命中不可或缺的背景——不是一起做什么,而是只要有你在,我就可以安心地去做任何事。
我认为的爱情,是轻盈的,透明的,简单的。
而你认为的爱情,是沉重的,晦涩的,复杂的。
我从来没想过考验你,因为我信任你,更因为我认为爱情是平凡之物,即使你犯了错,或者在某些时刻对我的爱降了温,我也可以接受。因为我愿意谅解爱的不完美。
可你却时刻警惕,甚至设置人工障碍来考验我,有时我会觉得你爱慕爱情超越了爱我,你只不过想把我提炼成一段完美的爱情故事。
亲爱的,对不起,在你提过了多次分手后,这一次轮到我提出分手了。我并不是赌气,更不是报复。只不过我的爱情观是极简主义,与你的极致主义实在不相匹配。我也不是老了,更不是爱不动了,其实我比你更渴望爱,所以我更需要像甘泉那样清澈透明的爱情来迅速滋润我的喉咙和心田,而你,需要的是果汁,需要那种甜腻的、绚丽的饮品来装点你的生活,只可惜,果汁对于我来说,已经不够解渴了。
亲爱的,我想要平淡的爱情,不需要时刻掏心掏肺,泪眼婆娑。也许有的爱情如暴风雨,有的爱情如绵绵细雨,如果只能选择一种的话,我情愿选择后者,因为暴风雨会摧毁万物,一场暴风雨过后,一切都会消失殆尽。而细雨能够润万物于无声,这才是最深沉的力量。也许多年后,我没有或宏大或凄美的爱情故事可以讲,但是我每时每刻都感受到了爱,这就够了。关于那些惊天动地、风花雪月的爱情故事,我当一个听众就好了。
我会记住我为你流过的眼泪,也会记住你灿烂的笑脸。请原谅我,并不是我不愿意等你慢慢长大或改变,而是我不想将你改变,就像我不愿意放弃简单的爱情一样,也许你也会一直不愿意放弃惊天地泣鬼神的爱情吧。毕竟,我们的一生都会爱许多人,并不是每个人都是用来走完这一辈子的。我们相互陪伴走了一段,留下了一些回忆,留下了一些感悟,这就是它会存在与发生的全部道理。
那么,亲爱的,就到这里吧,这封信,以及我们的爱情。
x年xx月xx日
:
回忆20__年的那些365天,在那过去的整整的一年之中,是你让我体会和享受到了莫大的幸福,你百般依我,宠我,尽管有时我很任性但是你还是会百般包容我,每天下班看到你在厨房忙碌的背影,真的很幸福,做你的女人也许真的很幸福吧,你那么幽默,时不时的逗我开心,即使有时候很难过失落,但你依然每次都会让我破涕为笑,坦白的说,跟你在一起,笑声不断,但是我为你哭的次数也不是少,蜷缩墙角自己蹲在厨房歇斯底里的哭,最后又被你抱到床上,掩着被角偷偷地哭泣,早上醒来枕巾湿了一片,眼睛莫名的肿的不成样子,最后过了一俩天不是又同样的对你眉开眼笑吗?
你说我不记仇,不是我不记仇,当然 我是分人的,和你,我觉得没有这个必要、彼此开心才是最重要的,写着写着,眼角的泪水又涌出来了,我是在上班啊,我不能哭,倘若被顾客看到了,又要觉得我失恋了,可事实呢,正是如此罢了,但是我不想被人识破,我拼命的压抑,拼命把眼泪往回挤,我不坚强,但是,以后我会试着坚强起来,以后,我不会在依靠别人,我谁都不靠我只靠我自己!!同样的,我以后不会为任何人而活,没有人值得除了我的亲人。不要误解,我不会因为这点事就对全世界唾弃,我的心态还是很好的,我热爱生命,热爱生活,和你的相遇,我只能把它归类为一场戏,荒诞荒谬都无所谓了,曲终了人也散了、我不怪谁,怪只能怪自己,傻得不成样子,全心全意的投入经营了一年的感情,到最后也逃不过分手这个结局。
还记得我在09年写的那份打印出来的日记吗?那些全是我们俩个09年的记忆,全是我们俩个的记忆、很苦涩,流出的泪很苦涩,大概在写那本日记的时候也从来没有设想过我们俩个是这样的结局吧,哼,其实挺合理的,本来就应该是这样的,这才是你想要的结局吧,我给你,很乐意给你,真的,一点都不勉强,哭过痛过一切都会过去的,正如你昨晚所说:长痛不如短痛。但我想问的是你为什么一定要给我痛呢?一段爱有多伤人,就代表曾经它有多动人。或许我已经对你造成负担了吧,不然你也不会想到把我扔下,对吧?
和你的点点滴滴,都满满的溢在脑边,不想去想却又挥之不去,放手吧,也许对谁都好,但愿你以后有你更好的生活,幸福的家庭,善解人意的妻子,哦,当然,一定要符合你妈的意愿,不然,只能像我一样被人排斥。
我们曾经共同营造的小家,是那么的温馨,今天,他依然温馨,可是,明天呢?
稀里糊涂的不知道都说了些什么,如果有什么不对的地方,也请你担待,最后,祝福你,26岁能与自己的真爱共结连理,我是没有这个福气了,希望你的下一个有,对你好一点,也算是对我最大的仁慈了,也希望你对你的她好一点,女孩子是要疼的,不是表面上粗略的做做面子,不要再说不会在乎任何一个女人的傻话了,这样,只会让爱你的远去,很心痛的离开。
最后,还是俗套一点。祝你幸福吧,尤其在你所谓的事业上。蒸蒸日上吧,注明一点:以上所有所有的话都是我的肺腑之言,至于你怎么看那全是你自己的事情了,再见吧。最后叫你一声,老公!!以后这就是别人的爱称了,可又有什么关系呢?我也是要变成别人的老婆的,我会对自己好的,很好很好的,再不那么傻了,再不那么傻了... 收起
还想再谈谈我们这次分手的最大功臣,暂且称之为猪脚吧,恩,打错了,是主角,说实话,我一直的一直都不把它放在眼里,甚至觉得他是你的前女友简直是极大地侮辱你。也许除了他的争强好胜的性子使你动心一点,其他的,至于容貌至于内心至于善解人意至于心胸至于面子一切的一切,他都不是我的对手,我打心眼里瞧不起他,在学校的时候,虽然我们都同在编辑部,我依然不喜欢她,那仿佛是与生俱来的、其实,我不想诽谤他什么,我说的都是实话,我自己的大实话,也许现在有些人该高兴了,拍手叫好了,拆散我们她很开心,发自肺腑的,可是,我要重申一遍,我们的结束不是因为她,他还没有到那个资格,永远都达不到,更不配,罪魁祸首还是彼此吧,我对你绝望了,彻彻底底的。
x年xx月xx日
:
你深深伤了我的心
在七个月前..我仍是你的情人..但在七个月后
我曾了你的陌生人...心有点痛..
总以为自己七个月了..不会再让你干扰我..
我的心仍然很平静得
但是..情形却不是如此...
看到你却深深的心痛...怪你..要和我做朋友..
你自己却在躲我..你可知道...在分手时..你早己深深伤了我
只是因..我爱你比爱自己还多..才一直想碰钉子和你联络
你一次一次..愈来愈冷的口气...
如今都分手七个月了..我想..我以后会采被动的角色...
我不想再让你有机会再伤害我...
..明明..是你的心..住了另一个人..却..说是我的不是..我想
认了...遇上你..上辈子欠你得...
该做得我做了..该说得我说了...算了..你我之间..也许..没有必要再多说什么了
平静
我走了也许真的走了
昨晚站在车站前你知道我多不舍松开手吗
当然你不会知道也不会懂
尽管知道你已经太晚回家了
却仍是那么的不舍
从你口中脱出一声声的"byebye"
就像利刃一般刺入我的心中
知道你在等我说掰掰但你知道吗
好难真的好难我说不出口
只好点了点头让你最后的背影消失在我的眼前
我走了也许真的走了
我好想大哭一场我没有真的没有
可是为什么现在我的泪水却停不下来
让我最后一次说我爱你真的爱你
虽然我从来没听你这么跟我说过
寻找大哥哥的娃
谢谢你的爱
My dear:
This is a dear John letter.
Not all break up, because love disappear or transfer.
Dear, just two days ago, you break up with me again, just because I didn't hear what you repeated twice.
Do you know? Whenever you say break up, what I see in your eyes is not for the life tired, more is not devoid of light of hope, on the contrary, I see a desire, a few times in your eyes even beaming thrilled and excited. I know that you are looking forward to me for losing your burst of sorrow and hysteria, rubbing their hands inside of you to wait for the arrival of this moment, to let you believe how much I love you.
So, break up, for you, is not even boring trick, but in between you and me will regularly on love drama, is a make you enjoy and satisfy feeling feast.
Dear, I'm really tired, for you endless questions and test, to give you endless love problem.
Every time when I face difficult or tired, and you will say I already do not love you, or I am old, have love.
I am willing to give everything for you, but not in this way.
I love you. But we have different understanding of love and pursuit. You worship that agitate paranoid love, so always hopes to love go twists and turns, go is blurred, with a series of earth-shattering story, with overdraw the life consumption and pay, with incomparable sadness to prove that love, interprets the love.
But for me, love is not the case. Love is not between life and death, not emotion and reason of the problem, not for a person to give up all other valuable thing in the world the courage of life. Love, is just a simple idea, is want to and a person together, is a little caring to separate a few days later, is to think of each other heart light faint scent, that's all.
Yes, love should be a kind of additive, it should be because it give everything, and should not deprive the rest of the life for it's right to exist. Love, should be a kind, generous, good luck. And should not be harsh, domineering, bad luck.
A small example. And I together of the time, you always want to do something, and I see a movie together, or play games, if I want to a person to do something, you will not happy. But I think, love, not to let each other to become the leading role of you all the time in your life, instead, is to let each other become indispensable background - not in their life together what to do, but as long as there is you, I can be at ease to do anything more.
I think love is light, transparent and simple.
And what do you think of love, is heavy, obscure and complex.
I never want to test you, because I trust you, but because I think love is a common thing in the world, even if you make a mistake, or at some point temperature down to my love, I can accept it. Because I want to understand love of the imperfect.
But you always alert, and even set up artificial barriers to test me, sometimes I think love beyond the love you love me, you just want to put my refined into a perfect love story.
Dear, I'm sorry, in you mentioned several times after break up, this time it's my turn to break up. I am not anger, nor retaliation. I just love is minimalist, the perfection of socialist don't match with you. I am not old, is not love, in fact I than you more eager to love, so I need more like oasis crystal clear love to moisten my throat and heart quickly, and you need is a fruit juice, need that kind of sweet greasy, gorgeous drinks to decorate your life, unfortunately, fruit juice for me, already not quench thirst.
Dear, I want to insipid love, don't need a moment rink hijinks tao lung, teary-eyed. Maybe some love like a storm, and some love is like the drizzle, if can only choose a, I would choose the latter, because the storm will destroy everything, after a storm, everything will disappear. And rain can run things in silence, this is the dark forces. Perhaps many years later, I have no grand or poignant love story to tell, but every time I felt the love, that's enough. About the astounding, sentimental love story, when I had an audience.
I will remember for you through the tears, I will remember you brilliant smiling face. Please forgive me, it's not that I don't want to wait you grew up or change slowly, but I don't want to change, would you like I don't want to give up the simple love, maybe you will also have been reluctant to give up simply make the gods cry of love. After all, our life will be a lot of people love, not everyone is used to go all my life. We accompany each other for a long, leave some memories, leaving some comprehension, that is the whole of the existence and you'll find it.
So, my dear, here, this letter, and our love.