今天这个日子提醒我们,在我们缔造生活所依赖的基石中,最为重要的是家庭。我们必须认识并且肯定每一位父亲在基石中起到的关键作用。父亲既循循善诱,又训练指导,既指明方向,又言传身教。父亲是成功的榜样,又是不断推动我们走向成功的人。
但如果我们开诚布公,就会承认还有太多的父亲不在其位------在太多孩子的生活里,在太多的家庭里,父亲的这一角色是缺失的。他们置责任于不顾,表现得像小男孩,而不是男子汉。我们许许多多的家庭的基础也因此变得薄弱。
在讲这些话时,我心里明白,我不是一个完美的父亲-------我知道我犯过错,而且未来还会犯错;我希望能有比现在更多的时间待在家里,陪伴妻子儿女,可是无法做到。所有这些我都明白,却仍然要这样讲。是因为纵然我们不完美,纵然我们面临重重困难,却依然有一些经验教训,是我们身为人父必须努力经历、努力总结的--------不管我们是黑人或白人,富人或穷人,来自贫穷的南区或来自富裕的郊区。
第一个经验是,我们必须给子女做出一个绝佳的榜样-------因为我们如果对他们抱有厚望,我们自己也应该志存高远。你有工作是件好事,有个大学文凭好上加好。如果你结婚成家,儿女绕膝,那再好不过,但不要整个周末在家里看ESPN体育台的“体育中心”。许多孩子就是在这样的影响下傍着电视机长大的。作为父亲,作为家长,我们应该花更多的时间陪伴孩子,帮助他们完成学业,时不时地把他们手中的游戏机或电视遥控器换成一本书。这就是我们打好家庭基石的方法。
我们明白教育是创造孩子未来的关键。我们明白为了获得好的工作,他们跟世界各地的孩子竞争。我们明白为此所需的辛劳、学习和应达到的教育水平。要想真正参与竞争,他们需要高中毕业,然后大学毕业,也许还得拿一张研究生文凭。让我们握握他们的手,叫他们把屁股挪到图书馆的座椅上吧!
要把这种追求卓越的理念灌输到孩子的头脑,就得靠作为父亲和家长的我们。我们有责任告诉我们的女儿,别让你的自身价值被电视上的形象影响,因为我期望你的梦想无极限,期望你去追求这些梦想。我们有责任告诉我们的儿子,虽然收音机里的歌曲美化了暴力,但在我的家里,我们歌颂成就、自尊和辛勤的劳动。我们有责任提出这些厚望,那就意味着,我们自己也必须达到这些期望,我们在生活中也要做一个卓越的榜样。
第二个经验是,作为父亲,我们应该传递给孩子感同身受的价值观。不是同情,而是感同身受------能设身处地地为他人着想,能从别人的角度看世界。有时候我们是那么容易地执着于“我们”二字,忘了我们相互之间应该承担的义务。我们的社会有一种文化观念,认为牢记这些义务是一种软弱的表现--------我们不应该显得软弱,因此我们不应该对人表示关爱。
但是,我们年轻的孩子们-------孩子或女孩子--------会观察到这一点。他们会看到你对妻子置之不理拳打脚踢,他们会观察到你的自私,所以在学校或在街上看到同样举止行为是不足为奇的。这就要求我们必须以身作则,把感同身受和与人为善也传递给我们的孩子。我们需要给孩子做出榜样,告诉他们强者不是把别人击倒,而是把别人扶起来。这就是我们作为父亲应该负起的责任。
我们应该采取这些作法,为我们的孩子打下坚实的基础。但我们也应该明白,即使我们做到了,即使我们作为父亲和家长尽到了应尽的义务,即使我们的政府也履行了职责,我们在生活中仍然会碰到许多艰难的挑战。我们仍然会有挣扎与痛苦的日子,风雨仍然会袭来。
因此,我们作为父亲应该总结最后一个经验,也就是我们可以送给孩子最为贵重的礼物,就是希望。
我们的希望不是空谈的希望,不是那种盲目的乐观主义,或者是对所面临问题的有意忽视。我讲的希望是那种长存于内心的精神-------即使所有的迹象都不乐观,这精神也让我们坚信有更好的未来在等待我们,只要愿意为之努力,为之奋斗。只要我们有这个信念。
我们尝试,我们希望,我们尽力把我们的房子建在最坚实的基石上。当风吹时,当雨打时,当风雨侵袭我们的房子时,我们坚信上帝会引导我们、注视我们、保护我们,引领着他的孩子们穿过最黑暗的暴风骤雨,走向光明的美好未来。这就是今天父亲节这个日子我为大家所做的祈祷,也是我对国家未来所抱的希望。
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Today, this day reminds us that we depend on to create the cornerstone of life, the most important thing is family. We must recognize, and certainly the cornerstone of every father to play a key role. His father, patience, and coaching, both direction, and words and deeds. Father is a successful example, but also continue to promote the success of our people.
But if we open and injustice, will not admit too many fathers in their place……too many children's lives where, in too many families, the father of this role is missing. The expense of their home responsibilities, acting like the little boy, not man. The basis of our many family and therefore become weak.
In speaking these words, I knew that I am not a perfect father ——I know I made mistakes, but the future will make mistakes; I hope to have more time than it is now at home, accompanied by his wife and children, but can not do. All I know, but still have to say this. Because even though we are not perfect, even though we face the difficulties, but still there are some lessons we must strive to experience as a father, to sum up the……whether we are black or white, rich or the poor, from poor South or from wealthy suburbs.
The first lesson is that we must make to their children an excellent example ——because if we have high expectations for them, we too, should aim high. You have a job is a good thing, there is a college diploma is good enough. If you are getting married, children around the knee, that could not be better, but not the entire weekend at home watching ESPN Sports "sports center." Many children is under the influence of this growing up near the TV. As a father, as parents, we should spend more time with their children and help them complete their studies, from time to time their TV remote control into the hands of the game or a book. This is the way we lay the cornerstone of the family.
We understand that education is the key to creating children's future. We understand that in order to obtain good jobs, they compete with children around the world. We appreciate the hard work required for this purpose, learning and should reach the level of education. To truly compete, they need to graduate high school, then college, and perhaps have to take a postgraduate diploma. We shook their hands, that they moved his ass in the library's seat now!
Bring this idea of excellence instilled into the child's mind, it rely on us as fathers and parents. We have a responsibility to tell our daughters, do not let your own values affect the image of being on television, because I expect you to dream without limit, expect you to pursue those dreams. We have a responsibility to tell our son, although the radio songs glorified violence, but in my house, we celebrate achievements, self-esteem and hard work. We have the responsibility to these expectations, it means that we ourselves must also meet these expectations, we have to do in life, a remarkable example.
The second experience was as a father, we should identify with the values passed to the child. Not sympathy, but empathy ——to put themselves for the sake of others, see the world from the perspective of others. Sometimes we are so easily obsessed with the "we" word, should forget our obligations to each other. Our society has a cultural concept, keep in mind that these obligations is a sign of weakness ——we should not look weak, so we should not be people that care.
However, our young children or children ——girls will observe this. They will see you ignore his wife punched and kicked, they will observe your selfish, so at school or in the street to see the same behavior behavior is not surprising. This requires that we must lead by example, to have empathy with people and pass to our children. We need to set an example to the children, tell them stronger than other people down, but to help others up. This is why we should take responsibility as a father.
We should take these practices to our children a solid foundation. But we should also understand that even if we did, even if we do as fathers and parents to the obligations, even if our government has fulfilled its duties, we will encounter in life are still many difficult challenges. We will still be struggling with the painful days, rain will still be hit.
Therefore, we concluded as a father should be the last experience, we can give children is the most precious gift is hope.
We hope not words of hope, not the kind of blind optimism, or is the problem faced by the willful neglect. I say hope is the kind of misery in the inner spirit ——Even if all the signs are not optimistic that this spirit we believe a better future waiting for us, as long as willing to work for the the struggle. As long as we have this conviction.
We try, we hope, we try to put our house in the most solid foundation to build on. When the wind blows, when the rain when the storm hit our house, we firmly believe that God will guide us, watching us, protect us, to lead his children through the darkest of the hurricane, to a bright bright future. This is Father's Day today, this day I do pray for everyone, which I hold the future of the country's hope.
Dear Dad,
As Father's Day is ing,I am writing to you to send all my best wishes foryou。During the days you work outside,I miss you so much。Thank you for giving mea warm family and making me live happily。Now,I have grown up,and you don't needto worry about me any more,I can look after myself well at home。
I hope you take good care of yourself,for you know,I love you,daddy。
Happy Father's Day,and have a good time。
Who is using the arm of Qiu Jin, for us to put up a brilliant sky?
Who is using the hard-working hands, happy for us to build a home?
Are you, father, a great name but Ordinary!
Father of a mountain, broad-minded, the father of rivers to accommodate an umbrella for us so that we stay away from disaster
Father of a vessel, carrying us, brave the wind and waves, love towards the Harbor!
In the eyes of his daughter, the father is more like you are leaning against a tree in spring can love you like fantasy Ganlu drop, moisten with my heart;
Through the summer to enjoy your love, like bursts of breeze, the wind blowing softly beside him;
Taught me to become ripe autumn, your love is to me is that the rich fruits of success
Taught me to become a strong winter, you love the sun are continuously given me confidence and strength!
Spring, summer, autumn and winter, the sun traces of rotation time, quietly climbed up the wind and rain on your face honed, so that you vicissitudes
Not forget, you earnestly to teach the scene
Not forget, you sent her daughter to ride back to school is not to be forgotten, when the daughter of Late in your sad eyes
Is not to be forgotten, when the sick daughter on your face can not forget the scenes of fear, the father and daughter is not to be forgotten ... ... If the situation can be life-cycle the next life, I also make your daughter!
Today is father's day on June 19, thinking of what my father had always sohard, I decided to send a gift for dad, but I don't know what is good, all of asudden, I think of mom and dad so good, there must be some good advice.
So, I went to see mother about how I let father happy. However, both mymother and I discussed for a long time didn't come up with ways to. Later, or amI a brainwave to come up with a good solution. I immediately said to mother:"father's beard, and often grow. And he is busy, so I want to buy a razor todad. Let him can shave beard. Whenever you have a mom, what do you say?" "Goodah, the child you think good!" I listen to not to mention how happy.
So, my mother and I went to the store together. So many things in thatshop! But I think of oneself is to buy a razor. So, I headed to display thecounter of the razor. Choose a moment, I saw a silver razor is both beautifuland practical, and the price is not expensive. So I pulled out my live frugallyaccumulated money at ordinary times, gave the boss, the took the silver razorwill go together with my mother. Out of the store, my mother said to me: "sendsomething not too well, your father to buy again, ok?" "Well, it's just that Ihaven't got much money." "That has nothing to do, I have money here." Then, Iand mother go to the blue house, a shop selling greeting CARDS and gifts. Wentinto the shop, I immediately began to pick. I have chosen a lovely smallgreeting card. Mother looked after that my vision is so good.
Back home, I'll write my best wishes for my father's language on the card.Razor and then, I put it together on, waiting patiently.
Father came home from work, I immediately handed the gifts and CARDS to hisfather. Father saw the a special gift, can't wait to see. Wait to see the gift,his mouth was opened a "O" type.
Then dad picked me up very happy, mother beside see us so, also very happy.Evening, mother also made a very big dinner, our whole family in have a veryhappy father's day. This is really an unforgettable father's day.
The people I respect the most is my father。 He is a doctor。 He always busywith work。 Since I can remember, he never spent a whole weekend to stay with me。He goes to the hospital very early before I get up, and es back home after Isleep。 But I doesn’t matter at all, he is hero to me。 He devotes almost all thetime to his patients, many lives are saved。 He always said, a man should havedignity, integrity, honor, and most of all, be helpful to others。 This affectedme deeply, so I work hard so that someday I could be the man like my father。
我最尊敬的人是我的父亲。他是一名医生。他的工作总是很忙。从我记事起,他就从来没有陪我过过一个完整的周末。他每一天在我起床前就去医院了,回来的时候我已经睡着。可是我一点也不介意,他在我的眼里是个英雄。他几乎把所有的时光都献给了他的病人,很多人的生命所以得救。他总是说,一个男人应当有尊严、正直、荣誉,更重要的是,帮忙他人。这对我的影响很深,我正努力,就是为了有一天成为一个像我父亲一样的男人。
Today day is a memorable day, are the annual Father's Day!
Deep sea motherly love, fatherly love heavy as a mountain. People at the same time to celebrate Mother's Day and did not forget his father's achievements. Someone start the year on the recommendation of Father's Day. Years, it is to celebrate the first Father's Day. At that time, the late father of all people have to wear a white rose, the father of the people alive while wearing red roses. This custom has been passed so far.
It is said that the selection of Father's Day is a month over month because of the sun are the most heated one, a symbol of the father to give their children the love that hot. Paternal such as mountains, tall and lofty, let me look timid and afraid to climb Health; father such as days,and far-reaching, so that Yang and my heart did not dare pity; paternal great deep are pure and not return , but love is a bitter, difficult to understand depression and the unattainable.
Father, like a tree, always, let him lush foliage of a solid arm for the tree to create shadeus. Years such as the fingers over the water, like, before I knew it, we have grown up, while the tree is gradually aging, and even the new leaves are no longer the hair full of vitality. Annually on the third Sunday is father's holiday, let us sincerely say: Father, I love you! Happy Father's Day!
Now, the Certificate of Education Examination and the final exams approaching, I suggest that we should seize the time, study hard, with excellent results as to the father's gift, great father to return, I believe his father at that time are the most beautiful smile! Students, come on now!
If you ask me, who Loved Me? I must answer, of course, is my favoritedad。
Rained today, can give my father to buy clothes and shoes was sent ah,looking forward to a father from Monday through Father's Day, it is also goingto rain!
I put on my raincoat firm ran home, half an hour later to the home, andeven locked the door。 At this time the rain had stopped it! Dad called, he saysthat they are mother and pouring it。 And quickly went to where to find them。 Ishouted a voice:
I help my father lift tube, put the finished pouring tube turn up north。Finally, my shoes are wet, but I am still very happy。 Mom and Dad did not thinkI'd e to help, but also very happy。 I think as long as Mom and Dad need us, westay with them, even if we do not buy a gift, they will be very happy。
Father's Day, I acpanied my father had, he was pleased, and I am even morehappy。
Father's Day, Father's Day is not just that we have to think in the end thelack of what Mom and Dad? Mom and Dad need us, we are in front of it?Thanksgiving Dad, Thanksgiving mother。 Father's Day, you stay with your parentsyet?
You know, Dad, there was a time when we were not only separated by thegeneration gap but pletely polarized by it。 You stood on one side of the GreatDivide and I on the other, father and daughter split apart by age andexperience, opinions, hairstyles, cosmetics, clothing, curfews, music, andboys。
The Father-Daughter Duel of '54 shifted into high gear when you taught meto drive the old Dodge and I decided I would drive the '54 Chevy whether youliked it or not。 The police officer who escorted me home after you reported theChevy stolen late one evening was too young to understand father-daughterpolitics and too old to have much tolerance for a snotty 16 year old。 You wereso decent about it, Dad, and I think that was probably what made it the worstnight of my life。
Our relationship improved immensely when I married a man you liked, andthings really turned around when we begin making babies right and left。 Wedidn't have a television set, you know, and we had to entertain ourselvessomehow。 I didn't know what to expect of you and Mom as grandparents but Ididn't have to wait long to find out。 Those babies adored you then just as theyadore you now。 When I see you with all your grandchildren, I know you've giventhem the finest gift a grandparent can give。 You've given them yourself。
many years ago, a baby boy came into this world. but unfortunately, hedidn't come with a cry, which was a big problem from the medical point of view.the doctor, tough and quick, turned the baby upside down and slapped his bottomsharply. the baby cried, and he survived. at that moment, the father yelled atthe doctor, why did you hit my baby? he did not realize that the doctor hadsaved the baby's life. the baby cried and cried, and the father smiled andsilently cried as well. he held the baby in his arms and did not allow thedoctor to touch the baby anymore.contest chair, ladies and gentlemen, that babywas me, and that man was my dad. whenever my mom told people this story, i wouldalways laugh aloud, and my dad would just shake his head and smile quietly.
很多年前,一个男婴来到了这个世界。但遗憾的是他没有“呱呱落地”,从医学角度来说,这是一个很大的问题!好在医生现场反应很快,也很强悍,一下子把男婴倒提起来,对着屁股一阵狂打。男婴终于哭了,脱离了生命危险。当时在场的孩子父亲不干了,对着医生吼道,“你为什么打我的孩子啊?”他并没有意识到医生救了这孩子的命。男婴不停地哭,这位父亲面带微笑,高兴地默默流泪。他紧紧地把婴儿抱在怀里,再也没有让医生碰一下这个孩子。大会主持人,女士们先生们,那个婴儿就是我,那个男的就是我老爸。每当妈告诉别人这个故事时,我总会放声大笑,而老爸则会一边摇头一边默默地微笑。
Many years ago, a baby boy came into this world. But unfortunately, he didn't come with a cry, which was a big problem from the medical point of view. The doctor, tough and quick, turned the baby upside down and slapped his bottom sharply. The baby cried, and he survived. At that moment, the father yelled at the doctor, Why did you hit my baby? He did not realize that the doctor had saved the baby's life. The baby cried and cried, and the father smiled and silently cried as well. He held the baby in his arms and did not allow the doctor to touch the baby anymore.Contest chair, ladies and gentlemen, that baby was me, and that man was my dad. Whenever my mom told people this story, I would always laugh aloud, and my dad would just shake his head and smile quietly.
The Duke and Duchess of Sussex have made their first public appearance as a married couple since the royal wedding.
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, who chose to delay their honeymoon to attend to royal duties, arrived at a garden party in honour of Prince Charles’ 70th birthday.
Held in the gardens of Buckingham Palace, the party will be hosting more than 6,000 guests from various charities and military associations linked to the Prince.
Although the Prince’s real birthday is on November 14, celebrations are held in May as it is more fitting for a garden party.
During her first public appearance as a member of the royal family, the Duchess of Sussex appeared right at home in her new role.
She arrived wearing a light cream colour 590 ‘Flavia’ dress by designer Goat, and a matching hat.
While at the party, the 36-year-old bonded with her in-laws the Duchess of Cornwall, Camilla, and Prince Charles, laughing together over a shared joke.
The Duke of Sussex also had an important role at the party, where he gave a speech honouring his father’s charity work, as well as the victims of the Manchester Arena bombing and the work of the emergency crews.
Prince Harry said: “We’re here today to reflect on and to celebrate my father’s dedicated support to all of you and the work that you do.
“But first I would like us to take a moment to reflect on the tragic events at the Manchester Arena a year ago.
“We are fortunate to have over 250 representatives from the emergency services here today. It is right that we take a moment to recognise the amazing work they do every day.”
The Prince of Wales' 70th Birthday Patronage Celebration is a way for Prince Charles to recognise and celebrate public service.
The 70-year-old supports over 420 charities, which raise more than 120mannually.
Today day is a memorable day, are the annual father's day!
deep sea motherly love, fatherly love heavy as a mountain. people at thesame time to celebrate mother's day and did not forget his father'sachievements. someone start the year on the recommendation of father's day.years, it is to celebrate the first father's day. at that time, the late fatherof all people have to wear a white rose, the father of the people alive whilewearing red roses. this custom has been passed so far.
it is said that the selection of father's day is a month over month becauseof the sun are the most heated one, a symbol of the father to give theirchildren the love that hot. paternal such as mountains, tall and lofty, let melook timid and afraid to climb health; father such as days,and far-reaching, sothat yang and my heart did not dare pity; paternal great deep are pure and notreturn , but love is a bitter, difficult to understand depression and theunattainable.
father, like a tree, always, let him lush foliage of a solid arm for thetree to create shadeus. years such as the fingers over the water, like, before iknew it, we have grown up, while the tree is gradually aging, and even the newleaves are no longer the hair full of vitality. annually on the third sunday isfather's holiday, let us sincerely say: father, i love you! happy father'sday!
now, the certificate of education examination and the final examsapproaching, i suggest that we should seize the time, study hard, with excellentresults as to the father's gift, great father to return, i believe his father atthat time are the most beautiful smile! students, come on now! ! !
今天天是个值得纪念的日子,是一年一度的父亲节!
母爱深似海,父爱重如山。人们在庆祝母亲节的同时,并没有忘记父亲的功绩。年就开始有人建议确定父亲节。年月,人们庆祝了第一个父亲节。当时,凡是父亲已故的人都佩戴一朵白玫瑰,父亲在世的人则佩戴红玫瑰。这种习俗一直流传至今。
据说,选定月过父亲节是因为月的阳光是一年之中最炽热的,象征了父亲给予子女的那火热的爱。父爱如山,高大而巍峨,让我望而生怯不敢攀登;父爱如天,粗旷而深远,让我仰而心怜不敢长啸;父爱是深邃的伟大的纯洁而不可回报的,然而父爱又是苦涩的,难懂的忧郁而不可企及的。父亲像是一棵树,总是不言不语,却让他枝叶繁茂的坚实臂膀为树下的我们遮风挡雨制造荫凉。岁月如指间的流水一样滑过,不觉间我们已长大,而树却渐渐老去,甚至新发的树叶都不再充满生机。每年月的第三个星期日是父亲的节日,让我们由衷的说一声:爸爸,我爱你!父亲节快乐!
现在,会考和期末考试将至,我建议我们要抓紧时间,努力学习,用优异的成绩作为送给父亲的礼物,去回报伟大的父爱,我相信那时父亲的笑容是最美的!同学们,加油吧!!!